#N0 1 Self-Esteem Boosting Strategies that Work

If you’re the type who evaluates situations around you and yourself and all you always see is negativity, you may be suffering from a low-esteem. How to practice boosting your self-esteem. Now is a matter of paying attention to your language from time to time. It will help if you can, eliminate the following phrases from your language when you feel down.

 

I can’t help it. I just have to be hard on myself when I make mistakes.

I’m afraid to try because I might fail.

I’m such a loser or a failure.

I stink at getting it right the first time.

I’m inadequate!

I’m nothing!

I’m unlovable!

My performance wasn’t that good.

My victory is not a big deal.

My boss ignores me.

This job is difficult.

My colleague does not respect me.

My company does not appreciate or value me.

I don’t have a future with this company.

What I do is never enough.

This is above my pay grade.

I can’t die. It’s not my father’s work.

It’s not in my job description 

I don't think, I can make it in this business. 

I just want to quit.

My boss complains a lot.

We have to remain something for tomorrow.

I’m such a screw-up.

There goes another criticism.

I’m stuck in this rut.

I never say anything right.

This job doesn’t give me the happiness I crave.

I don’t get a raise or promotion.

 

To boost your self-esteem, it will be best to also build meaningful relationships with people who accept and value you. Gain competence in your area of specialization. Move forward when you fail. See mistakes as learning the lessons that matter to your life. Have consistent values. Keep your attitude consistent. Make holistic choices. From time to time, tell yourself positive statements and strive to live up to the positive statements.

Love & More Success. 💗

 

Your friend and Coach, 

Damilola Ogunremi.