👉Imagine letting people
put you down. These people are in your family, church, workplace, neighborhood
and amongst your friends. Does the thought of that make you feel you are
worthless? Or maybe, like me, it motivates you to stand tall above their
wagging tongues and degrading lips? I know that belittlement, which sets in
when you are not applying your image skill in the face of scorn. Ha! Well, I
would like for you to start taking control.
👉When people talk badly of
you, envious of you, bring you down or just dislike you for no good reason
usually, what stands in their way is their lack of self-confidence, pride or
poor manners from wherever they are coming from or struggle for their own
identity. So, instead of focusing on feeling less like the ugly duckling,
finding yourself through wrong or forceful means, what you really need to do is
to put your time and energies into building your “image skills.” Otherwise, as
this awful people constantly wrestle with the issue of image in their lives,
they would continue to bring you down.
👉I tell you, most of the
dejection we experience in life sometimes comes partly from opening ourselves
to the bile of the awful people around us and from not understanding who we
really are. From now on, you must center your efforts not on replying to their
attacks or feeling worthless but on changing your perspective on the damage
they are posting. Consistently filter out their negatives. Have a positive
attitude. Create a much more beautiful you. Consciously or unconsciously,
decide the tone of your image.
👉So what kind of image do
you want to create for yourself? It should be that of prominence because you
are sons and daughters of greatness. You should want the best for yourself
regardless of what anyone tells you or thinks of you.
👉Steps to creating the
beautiful you:
👉To begin with, how do you
measure your worth? What do you think
you are worth? If you are loving, kind, beautiful, decent, intelligent, sound,
bright, smart, ambitious, charming, honest, admirable etc, then, this should be
the qualities you choose to see when people say otherwise about you. Your
choices should be based on these values, not the ugly things your mood tells
you because of the bad which has been said about you. Choose your moods,
actions, words, and attitudes, the terrible things flying about you shouldn’t
do it for you.
👉Additionally there other
things you need to learn to create the beautiful you like acquiring new skills?
Go for it. Don’t just stand in the wave of your antagonists’ wrath. Have a
clear mind and pioneering spirit in adapting your new skills. Have in mind that
not everyone would appreciate you, love you, be your true friend or perceive
you the way you are. So I advise you . . .
Be Positive. Be Worthy. Be Healthy. Be Beautiful!
Creating
More Success with You,
Damilola
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