Relationship Etiquette: Some Good Advice for You Ladies

 

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As a lady, what are the first things you will watch out for in a new relationship?

🫂 Even when you aren't ready for sex, a guy who values you and wants to have a long-term relationship with you will be kind, patient, courteous, generous, and show up in a variety of ways in the relationship to demonstrate that he is interested in you in more ways than just for sex.

⚽️ If your ultimate goal in a relationship is a lifetime commitment with someone you recently met, I advise you to put off having sex in the new relationship for a while and instead focus on cultivating a holistic character, mutual respect, acceptance, compatibility, love, and shared objectives with your new connection. This kind of dating won't appeal to your new boyfriend if he only cares about using you for sex and then dumping you after a while. Even though he might still be chit-chatting with you, he will dump you at this point. To avoid giving the impression that he is a player, he may keep up the chatting for a short time until your connection gradually breaks down.

🔨 Here are a few of the many warning flags to look out for when you are just beginning a relationship that usually indicates that a man is going nowhere with you and he's only interested in you for sex and possibly some fun time.

🌶If he simply takes you to a hotel, even though he has a house, it's a clear sign that he won't be going far with you.

🌶When he limits visits in the relationship to your own home and never lets you come to visit him at home, it's a clear sign that he's juggling you with another woman.

🌶When he only allows you to visit his house when no one is home and covertly sneaks you in and out, there's a skeleton in his cupboard, and you should run while your heart is still in one piece. 💔

🌶If he objects to you holding hands with him, holding him in a particular way when you go shopping together in his neighbourhood, or just generally doesn't like to be out and about with you in public, he has already identified with another woman, and you may be dealing with a third party situation. RUN! 🏃‍♂️ 

🌶It is a clue that he is not interested in you or committed to you and is only using you as a means of passing the time if he doesn't create any opportunities for you to meet the people he calls his friends and family or presents you to them informally as a mere acquaintance.

🌶His relationship with you has no direction when he claims to be in a serious relationship with you, but in your company, he alludes to another lady as his future bride, making comments like, "I'll take the woman I'll marry around the world with me when I finally settle down."

 ⛱ Ladies, you are more than simply a hole for Dick, Tom, and Harry to pump into and unload. In your relationships, keep reality in perspective. Embrace the power of walking away when the relationship is wrong. YOU ARE A RAY OF SUNSHINE; VALUE YOURSELF BEYOND NEGOTIATION. 

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I hope these few pointers will help you improve your defence and enable you to avoid the player's shots. ☺

I hope you have a fantastic weekend.

Love and light 💚 💡 

Damilola Ogunremi,

Etiquette and Image Consultant.